Henrietta. O: Article.
The Art of Being! This article was culled from Henrietta. O,s substack. There is something tragically beautiful about choosing ourselves; it’s a return to sovereignty, to remembering, to that inner, unshakeable knowing that we matter even when nothing around us is reflecting that truth. I wasn’t blessed with an overwhelming level of confidence as a child; in fact, I was meek and unassuming. I didn’t have many friends growing up, and spent most of my time getting lost in my thoughts and playing with my siblings, the neighbourhood kids and the few friends I had. I was told consistently to come out of my “shell” as if confidence was hiding in the cocoon of meekness. One advantage of being withdrawn, shy and unassuming is that you spend most of your time observing people and patterns, you become highly skilled at predicting outcomes in mundane situations with psych-like precision that it’s chilling for others to witness. I became very good at noticing things that many peop...